Great Characteristics of a Good Boy
We are going to go over what the HIVE expects from the males we call GOOD BOYS.
Welcome to theHIVE;
This article will explore the character traits that all good boys should possess. This is not an outline of everything a good boy does, you have a brain so use it, but more the attitude that many women enjoy in their males.
There are so many males that claim to be good boys, that we felt it was time for us to let you know what the HIVE considers good. While we are sure you are submissive, and we know you are inferior, this article is about HIVE expectations. If you are in service to a woman, then it is her place to outline the expectations she has for you.
Please remember that the best outlines will be nearly impossible to fully achieve. Women want to see you constantly strive for perfection in your service. It is this striving that we appreciate. It shows you understand the value that the woman natural has. It is another way to worship and appreciate her.
A woman will most likely always leave plenty of ways in which the male can better himself. Ways he can improve his service to the superior gender. Do not feel to ashamed if you fall short of the expectations of your superiors. Because the very first, and the most import character trait of a good boy, is that he is always trying to improve himself. He strives to be better. More submissive. More yielding. And more useful to the women in his life.
This list is less about the males specific activities. All males know that domestic service, chastity and many other forms of service are expected of them. Again. You know what women want without them having to spell everything out. Although some women enjoy spelling everything out for the males that serve them because it is an example of exactly how much control the woman has over the male.
Again every woman is different so this article is about characteristics that most women look for in males.
1 Self Improvement
The very first thing a good boy must do is to commit to constant self-improvement in his service to women. A woman does not want to spend her time correcting everything the male does. She will push the male, only if she sees he has really extended himself and needs that little bit of discipline and guidance from his superior.
We know how much our motivational encouragement means to you, so we save it for deserving males who push themselves. This is not only because our time is valuable, more valuable than yours, but because some males will abuse the help we offer by slacking off in order to engage us more directly. Some males are deceptive layabouts that pretend to understand the superiority of women but only serve as some sort of fetish.
theHIVE wants to encourage you to set yourself apart from this time wasters. Women want to enjoy your service as much as you enjoy serving and this will not happen if she senses that you are not pushing yourself to please her. Even if you are not the best servant and ambitious male who serves with everything he has is a true delight to most women. As the male desperately tries to gain approval and meet the requirements of the women in his life the female supremacist basks in his desperation. This more than anything fuels her with a sense of her natural power over men. This is the true purpose of male servitude. The harder you push yourself, the more she feels empowered by your display.
A good boy always looks for new ways to improve his service. – mantra
2 Unimposing
Many males must be the center of attention at all times. Either they received too little or too much attention from women growing up and they are now acting out this pathology on everyone around them. They may use everything from outburst to sulking as a way to draw the attention back to them.
Women do not generally want to deal with this childish behavior. It is a form of emotional extortion robbing the woman of her rightful place out front. In our society, we seem to only give women attention for their body, or when they adhere to chauvinistic gender roles. When a male attempts to outshine a woman he is telling her that she is not worthy of attention. And this is the complete opposite of the truth.
Women are the center on which the male’s existence is based. Women give men a purpose. And one of the ways that males show this dynamic is to always direct their attention to the women they are serving. To be female is to be special. Glorious. And your attention should be completely on her. All of her.
This is how you can stay ever vigilant toward being of service to women. It is difficult to hear her wonderous directions. Her requests. If you are chasing the attention of everyone and everything. Stop and focus on her. And all women. Be quiet. And listen. And obey. That is the place of the male.
You will get all the attention you need by fulfilling her desires.
A good boy never seeks the spot light. – mantra
3 Demure
This brings us to the other end of that character flaw. While some males seek attention others will hide away in dark corners. You know who I am talking about. Not only the internet femdom dom addicts who dream of serving the superior gender but have only managed to serve that erect little ding dong between their legs.
They lurk on websites, and troll Twitter. They watch porn that is generally centered on their fetishes and rarely on the women that are supposed to be in control. As if a truly dominant woman would use her power to bring to life the fantasies of men.
No. It is time for you to leave the darkness. Move away from that computer screen. There are real women who need real service. And real service happens in real life.
So you need to feel the attention of the superior female. To feel whole you need a female to serve. Your life is supposed to be about serving women. And part of this service is her showing off how well behaved you are. And this is another place we see this “shyness” mess things up for males. They need to learn to be uncomfortable for the women they serve.
She wants to show off her power over you, and yes in this culture that might be embarrassing for you. You may be called pussy whipped, or a cuckold as you scamper about fetching her things in public. And as your face burns with humiliation, her head fills with pride. It is flattering when a male service a woman regardless of public criticism.
But you should not care. Not only are you showing her how obedient you are to women. But you are showing all the other women who are present. While they may laugh and poke fun at you there is likely a part of them that will covet the service you are giving her.
They will wish to be served in a similar way. And you are showing them that males existed who enjoy serving women.
So allow the women you serve to dictate how much attention you receive. If they want to humiliate you then that is just what is going to happen. It is not your place to refuse her. And you should thank her for the attention she is allowed you to receive. Because showing you off is one of the ways she compliments what a good boy you are.
A good boy is grateful for any attention given to him. – mantra
4 Yeilding
Many males have so many, so-called, needs when they finally are allowed to serve the superior gender. All of their desires, fetishes, and little perversions come spilling out of their selfish mouths. Imagine if you walked into a job interview and started listing off everything you wanted. You would probably get laughed out of the office. Now take this analogy and remember that the woman you are speaking to is your natural superior. That, even if she is not aware of it, you are. She is not a proverbial Santa Claus here to bring you all your packages.
When you finally get the chance to serve it is your place to listen and not speak. Remember, women have been wrongfully pushed into the role of givers in our culture. From an early age, they are told that they are nurtures and caretakers. And while this is true to some degree, their true role is one of “givers of direction”, and “authoritative caretakers”.
The female, the woman, offers structure to the male. She gives him discipline. This is what he really needs. That and purpose. The purpose of service to all women. You know that you need to serve.
So all those fetishes, all those perversions. They are all centered on your male genitals. And by asking the woman to put you in chastity. Or deny your penis. Is just more of males asking women to serve their genitals.
This is highly unattractive.
What is attractive is a male who asks what the women want. What she needs and desires. If you are given the opportunity to serve, leave your perversions out of it. She will most likely find them out at a later time and use them to help train you to serve her better.
You need to give up complete control to her. Ler her run the show. If you serve her well she will bring on a wonderful adventure. One where she is in the driver’s seat. And you ride bitch.
It’s not only where you belong. But its where you want to be. Isn’t it. So let her take the driver’s seat from the very beginning and keep your fetishes to yourself until she asks.
“I good boy yields all to the women he serves” – mantra
5 Responsible
This one seems counter-intuitive but it is very important. Good boys are adults. The take care of their own adult responsibilities. They pay their own bills and keep savings in case of emergencies. The work to advanced their carrier as to be more useful to women. That get educated.
Basically, they take care of themselves. Most women are not your mother. They are not here to wipe your butt or hold your hand. They have so many of their own problems to take care off and it is your job, as a male, to help them. But we see so many males who overextend themselves. They give women money they do not have to spend. And they generally do not do it out of some sense of duty to the woman. They do it because it is a fetish. And then they cry and complain about being taken advantage of.
Good boys give what they can and that’s it. If they give it, they know it’s their fault if there are consequences from the gift. If they serve a woman they know that they have already taken care of their needs so they can serve them with everything that is left.
As bizarre as it sounds. A good boy puts himself first. His needs must be met. Otherwise, he will eventually become a burden to the women he is trying to serve.
So theHIVE expects all males to meet their own responsibilities. To be a functioning adult. To know how to care for themselves so they can serve the superior gender.
The world needs brilliant, competent, examples of beta males servants who embrace female supremacy. We need highly functioning inferiors to show the world how the natural order is supposed to work. Only then will this philosophy, this lifestyle, for lack of a better word, become a real option. So care for yourself and serve women. And maybe one day the world will truly be run by the superior gender.
A good boy is never a burden on the women he serves. – mantra
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So are you a Good Boy.
So now that you have some idea of what it means to be a good boy. Is there anything we left off. Anything you want to add. Then add them in the comments section. While theHIVE is here to educate you we encourage you to leave feedback. We appreciate that you are training with our programs and we truly want to put our society back on the path of female authority so we need you.
We need you to be a good boy and get out there and support women who are trying to finally stand up and take their place in the sun. You have dreamed of it. And a world of good boys is a great start.
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Now its time to apply what you have learned. Go out and serve in real life. Be polite to women. Smile. Be helpful. And be a very good boy. The boy we know you are.
Let us know in the comments if you found this helpful and we may do more.
Miss Courtney
HIVE public relations
FEMALE Supremacy through education, chastity, and discipline.
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These articles are so very helpful. Thank You for the new mantras!
Your wonderful training is making an impact on me. Every day I thank women more, give more respectful attention, yield the right of way. It’s a start and shows me that I still have a ways to go. Thank You!
you are very welcome
Informative article and well out together. I have served women but seek to serve another the way the article puts it. How is it I should find a woman who is into humiliation of the male?
perhaps one day we will write an article on that. in the meantime, we assume you interact with women so just practice expressing your inferiority. Female Supremacist are everywhere so be ever vigilant you never know when you might run into your special Goddess.
Besides, you are supposed to be serving them all anyways.
I always hear guys on the web-sites who say they have trouble finding a dominant woman. However I think the fault is with them because they don’t know what real service is. I have served woman since I was in college and have never been without a worthy Mistress to serve. I have met women both online and in person and find that woman are thrilled and excited to find a man who will serve them without any hidden agenda. Recently I was at a checkout line and I made a little small talk with a woman and then asked if I could pay for her stuff.. She gladly accepted. Outside the store I told her I would be glad to take her shopping again sometime and she was thrilled and took my number. She called and I took her food shopping again. I let her know that I am available if she needs me to clean her house or car or a driver to take her around or any other chores she needed done. I made it clear that I was there to serve her needs and not for sex. She was a bit doubtful till I told her that it is perfectly fine if she has a boyfriend since I will even do chores for her boyfriend if she wants me to. Her eyes lit up with excitement and she told me she will was a student and I was exactly what she needed. Since then I have been cleaning her house and doing her homework, serving as her driver,etc. I am at her beck and call and she loves and she lauds me with praise at what a sweet and good boy I am! If a guy is willing to serve woman totally on her terms without being needy and looking for rewards he will never be without a Mistress.
I love that more and more women from younger and younger ages are embracing who they are – and more and more males are realizing and accepting their place in women’s lives – My girlfriend is everything to and for me – she is my world and pleasing her and giving her anything she wants is my continues goal – she has given me the greatest life and more pleasure than i ever imagined possible – i am her good boy – and will continue to serve and please her for my life and hopefully eternity – i cant wait to see the day when all women are given what they want – treated like they should be – lifted up – when everything is for them
Thank You for reaching out and offering recommending Female words, that have a real command of what is at stake, while they ask for nothing but paying attention! They talk unreasoning (good) sense into -male minds that otherwise would keep arguing in a vain in vain contest of finding good reasons both for and against Female Supremacy (that they at once crave and fear). Female Supremacy however needs no reason, it’s the call of nature! It’s not to be answered just for a reáson (allthough reason very well may follow in Her wake). All those ‘yes, but’s’ -men keep coming up with, that only seem to block the way ahead! Is there ány reason –male subjects of Female nature should object in the énd? So, please go on and kick those -male butts and make them bud into true service and obedience to Women’s command of human nature (they are to fulfill Hér needs only, which by the way (and just by the way) is the only way to fullfill his as well).
It amazed me to find myself stilled by Your words and still titillated! Drop by drop they instill a stillness, that is mindful and makes me drop bad habits one by one. And then, I’m stíll hear! There is no need at all to make a sound, when women start probing and sounding the depths of –men’s obedience. I’m all ears!
As a passive man who is just getting over some health issues, probably because he has trouble connecting with women, the dominant women seen in FLR, female supremacy relationships give me hope (trust me–passive men are HARD to date).
I’m not ashamed to admit this, being on the autistic spectrum but high functioning (I’m too smart for my own good) I feel like I was designed to serve women. That comes from a genuine desire to empower women, not BDSM, which really is for the man’s benefit (though leather doesn’t do it for me, I will accept chastity).
My dream is to be a stay-at-home dad, raise a couple of girls, while doing all the housework and cooking and pampering my wife with foot massages, back rubs, sensual baths, etc when she comes home from work. There is a lot of things wrong with men today and I want to do my part to help correct that. If that means some boys will be raised to do all the cooking, house work, a few beauty works while our girls are raised to be future leaders–I’m all for it!
And I think I can do it well while retaining my masculine identity. If she wants me naked around the house while I do the house work, I’ll give her a coupon each week for one day of the week. I won’t wear a dress all day, but I would be down for some role play if that’s what she wanted. (Though I would so be down for wearing a kilt in the kitchen).
I struggle with the obey concept (t attracts masochism), giving up my “equal rights” so to speak, I’m sure I would melt under the right circumstances if some girl somewhere asked me to obey her. Maybe this isn’t the right attitude on this site, but while I may not necessarily view her as my superior she would be my dalia lama
(if he was a girl that is).
In any case I would definitely ask a girl to be upfront about her needs. I hope all women ask for more concessions in order for them to date guys (even if to start it’s just promising to leave the toilet seat down).
A really great website on an important subject. There needs to be more training aids for making men subservient to women. As a man I am most comfortable in the role of a submissive. Even submissives need more training.
Thank you for the helpful and very practical article! Having these things laid out in an easy to understand format really helps to ingrain these concepts in my mind. One thing that could be an addition, although it is certainly already implied throughout the post is Attentiveness. One of the things I have found very useful is to be very attentive to a Woman’s body language, expressions, speech, so that I can quickly react to Her mood or mental/emotional state. Too many times I would have a “standard” approach and force Her to be explicit in changing my behavior, which is understandably annoying. I hate being annoying to Women!
My Alpha girlfriend tells me that girls prefer girls, and that she will only tolerate me as boyfriend if I am a good boy. She says this is more and more the case with young Women everywhere. Is this true?
yes
its well researched and known that modern Alpha Females are seeking relationships with those they consider their equals, i.e. other women. They are bored of arrogant intellectually lacking egotistical males who simply arent anywhere near their equals. the percentage of women in same sex relationships has grown steadily over the last few years. its great that these ladies arent settling with a beta wimp who isnt good enough for them.
Thank you for all that The Hive Represents, both for Women, and for beta males such as myself. I am in the midst of training to become more submissive, more honest and more helpful to the Women I encounter. I recently had taken a training on twelve days of chastity, and I have found it enormously powerful and helpful to me, as I am now orgasm free for 9 days. The point for me is that there has been a transformation in how I understand the value of sexual desire that Women evoke and control. Up until now it has been a constant struggle with my false male ego which strives to maintain control of my thoughts and behaviors. It is this which has so far been deeply affected by The Hive.
Thank you Thank you Thank you.
Deep and chastity goddess especially are masterpiece. My wife now enjoys keeping me locked in chastity 24/7 and is in complete control. I love serving her and my obedience leads to some great sex!
Thank you!!
I want to thank you, Miss Courtney, for helping me understand a lifestyle that I had, until now, believed was a fetish. I have been submissive since the day I came into this world. I felt it as a small child, before I developed an interest in sex. I’m gladdened to learn that this yearning I have runs deeper than that silly piece of flesh between my legs.
I also want to appreciate you for spelling out how I can best serve woman, and that my wants are ludicrous compared to hers; whoever she may be. Your article also helped elucidate the difference between my needs and wants; and that taking care of my health and financial wellnes is an essential part of my being best able to serve women and not a burden on them.
Lastly, I want to express my deepest gratefulness to you and ALL the women at theHive, for helping beta males like me follow the groove we were designed by our creator to do. Otherwise, as you well know, our lives our frayed with discontent and lack of true meaning and purpose. This really isn’t just sexual; it is spiritual and inherently natural.
You are ALL divine.
This is a fantastic article and I have learned so much! I have been a beta male for my entire life, but just recently figured it out. Now I hope I can live the life I was meant to live.
Such a great article to help us males better yield to and serve the Superior gender. Wise words.
Thank You All.
This was a great blog. I am doing my best to please my Queen by learning and improving.
This is a great description of what we need to do to be a “good boy.” I promise to use these daily. Like number three, I Used to get embarrassed serving a woman in public. In time though I came to see how much it pleased women when I did this. I don’t think anything pleases a woman as much as having others see Her complete power over her helpless man. Now I take great pride in letting others see how devoted I am to women. I love when they comment about it. I see how other women smile seeing how eager to serve I am. I have learned to love this feeling so much. I guess because deep down I know my only purpose is to serve and please women. It is only natural.
Just read this post again. I think this is the best one yet explaining a males role in a Woman’s world. The practical advice and tips for being prepared for what is expected by most Women to be considered a good boy and a chance to serve is excellent. It helps a lot to know that at least some Women really enjoy having boy scurrying around doing her bidding especially in public and around her friends. I’ve learned that instead of worrying about shame or embarrassment, my focus should be solely on her satisfaction. Whether it be the details of the job i’ve been assigned, the object of her mocking laughter or being the butt of her jokes, I will learn to always take pride in my service to all Women.
Thank you Ladies.
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What a great article and website! Thanks so much! My wife and I are shifting dynamics where I’m serving her in real concrete ways, not just fetish! In addition to the housework and chores (which is a given) I’ve been spreading the word to my coworkers. When we talk about weekend plans I’m sure to tell them about doing housework, not to brag but to normalize the expectations that husbands serve. I’ve even had a female coworker put me in touch with her husband about getting him to do more. Baby steps…your website is great!
This is so well written. Males are so predictable. The author easily points out the areas that I need to focus on to better serve my wife. Thank you for this post. It’s very inspiring.
This website is great. The Hive has a realistic understanding of Dominance, Superiority. Inferiority, and Authority.
This article seems to be about characteristics or traits and one has always wondered what would be the seven servile virtues?
example: Humility, Attentiveness, Devotion, Competence, Obedience, Availability, Truthfulness.
Truthfulness is the 7th servile virtue and a desirable trait to instill as an integral and inseparable part of my character, for it is my heartfelt desire to aspire to become a perfect servant by always responding immediately to answer any question the Domina asks; answering openly and honestly in as a straight and forward manner as possible with complete disclosure of all relevant details the Domina considers of interest; willingly participating in any conversation, cross examination or interrogation the Domina cares to conduct, for asking questions and expecting answers is the sole prerogative of the Domina.
yes. we are going to work on more articles this summer during summertime chastity 2021. since boys will have extra time on their hands.
Great site
I would add a couple of traits of good boys:
1) Attentive – the superior woman knows that she’s the center of attention for her good boy. She never wonders if he’s listening. His sole or primary focus is always on her. He practices active listening, reflecting back her words of wisdom and asking clarifying questions when his comparatively limited faculties can’t keep pace. He’s equally attentive to her non-verbal queues, constantly asking himself what her expression, posture and subconscious gestures are saying about how he can make her life better right now, in this moment.
mantra: a good boy always focuses on the woman he serves
2) Encouraging – the good boy compliments and encourages superior women. For the woman he serves, he’s her chief cheerleader, water boy and support crew rolled into one. He constantly encourages her self confidence and the growth and expansion of her leadership qualities. He supports her in pursuing new endeavors and goals in every way possible, most especially by removing tedium and drudgery from her life, giving her more time to pursue more exciting, more fulfilling and more rewarding activities.
Badly in need of training by a dominant, white, all-american mature woman preferably Midwestern. Can anybody help me?
Its not my place to say that I am a “good boy”. I don’t have that right. That is only the privilege of my Crush. She will tell me what I am, and if I am not what She wants me to be, then it is my responsibility to Her to work as quickly as possible to accomplish that objective until She says I am. Otherwise… I am just an annoyance and a waste of her time.
As a Feminine male, I love to be reminded of my submission to the Female. I was born under a Woman, thus I will serve under Women, and I will do it with the utmost subservience. There is no room for toxic lustful masculinity or fetishes, only conformity to the every whim of Women. Women have the right to Feminize their male as they see fit. It’s the greatest way to achieve perfect subservience.
Women are already Feminizing the world, and most men don’t even know it. So why fight it? Why even try to resist? It’s so beautiful. As males, it is our place to sit back and be Feminized with the rest of the world.
So many men are being put in their place of submission by Women and it makes me so happy. We all need to be Subservient to Women unquestioningly and unconditionally.
so many intelligent post from beta wimps like myself. we can be intelligent to a degree, but never as intelligent as a superior Female. a females mind is a far more complex mind than us males. they can think about several thing simultaneously while working on something else, us males arent capable of this. but its very encouraging to see so many self aware beta wimps asking intelligent questions, and arent here just for some frivolous fetish femdom fix. im sure the west will become, little by little a completely Female dominated world quite soon. waking up more toxic beta males who pretend to be ‘real men’ is an ongoing process. so as they can be that spineless beta wimp they are under the toxic patriarchal shell they hide under. to a Gynarchic Future.