the LOOK
Find out more about that look that cuts to your core, makes your heart pound, your penis hard, and your head swim in dopamine.
Welcome to the HIVE.
One of the biggest weakness, beta males have is something theHIVE calls, the look. Every beta male knows what it is and it is important for them to be able to recognize the look and react correctly. This is because, how you react will determine how the superior female sees you.
The problem is that women are far more complex than males. Because of how complicated their mental processing is, many males find them difficult to understand. Males who are still enslaved to their false egos may use terms like “crazy” or “insane” to describe how the superior gender thinks and processes information. This is because they have become fearful or frustrated by their inability to please women. They know the fault is their own, but are too immature to take responsibility for their failings, or even to ask the woman to help them understand how to behave in their presence.
For this reason, we want to help you by deconstructing and explaining some of the looks you may experience when dealing with the superior gender. Because interpreting each woman’s distinct expressions is one of the first steps to being of service, we want to spend time carefully discussing, or dumbing down, how women communicate so that you may understand it. Males are not the most perceptive of creatures, so theHIVE has decided to take this post to help you with one of the most common looks. Simply called, The Look.
First Impressions on The Look
It is so amusing when males try to interpret what this woman is thinking. The Look seems to completely mystify them. Many will say that she is either angry or, of all things, sexually attracted to the male. Neither of these is correct. And as The Look goes on the male will generally panic.
They will fumble and stutter, attempting to elicit some reaction out of the woman, but to no avail. The longer the female remains in this state, the more confidence drains away from the male. He may attempt to tell a joke or give her a compliment, and yet she still robs him of any indication of what she is feeling.
The HIVE has seen beta males literally break down crying over this, and to be honest, in those instances, in the right atmosphere, this is a correct response.
But generally, the woman will simply let the male display until he either does something she wants or does something she dislikes. So we want to improve your chances of the former.
The purpose of The Look
She is studying you. When a woman who knows her power, interacts with you in this way. She is assessing if you. Understand, she is the one who is in control, not you. If you keep this in the forefront of your mind you will be well ahead of most males who find themselves in this situation.
She is also gauging your level of comfort with your inferiority in her presence. What you see here is a combination of controlled affect and intense curiosity. She wants you to know you have her complete attention, without giving you any indicators that may allow you to simply read her and respond to her emotional state. This is your one chance to shine or fail miserably. And you instinctively know it. Which is why you panic.
Remember she wants you to show her your cards. To lay them on the table.
Think of it as a game of poker. She is showing her power face. As an inferior male searching for someone to serve you move is to turn over your cards and ask her how much she wishes you to bet. Without being to forward, she needs to know that you are not here to resist her. That you want to serve and are willing to give her all the power in the interaction.
At this point, she gets to decide if you have anything she is interested in. Unfortunately, most males blow it. Not because they do not have cards she may like, but because they do not show her their authentic cards. Instead, they try to entertain or impress her with that obnoxious false male ego. To a woman who looks for beta male, this shows a lack of sincere desire to serve. Unfortunately, in most cases, the males are just doing what they were taught. No one has instructed them on how to behave in this pivotal moment. The moment when you have her attention and it is your time to display that genetic inferiority.
What to do when receiving The Look
Because it is so important to understand how to react to this invitation to display your weakness. We are going to briefly provide you with some suggestions that you should do and a few you should absolutely not.
First what not to do.
- Do not talk about yourself to impress her. Many males will go on and on about how impressive they are, in hopes that she will find this attractive. But it only comes off as being conceited. Refrain from talking about yourself unless she asks.
- Do not tell her you are attracted to or aroused by her. She knows. She can read it all over your face and mannerisms. Nothing will kill her interest faster than you bringing up what her appearance is doing for you. Males are raised to think that the world revolves around serving their pleasure organs. But you know that your world is about serving women. You need to let her know you fully understand this truth.
- While some stuttering and awkwardness can be cute to a dominant woman, please keep it to a minimum. She can see how nervous you are. It will most likely comfort her if you do not make it her problem to solve.
So what to do.
- Ask her what you can do for her. Without being too weird, simply offer to be of service to her in some way. In a short statement ensure her that the act of service is its own reward for you. Female supremacist will find this extremely refreshing and women, in general, will find it charming. However. Do not pester. Be polite. Leave it open-ended.
- After introducing yourself and making a short initial statement of service, be quiet. Shut up! Some males tend to try and dominate a conversation when they are uncomfortable. Let her lead the conversation. Remember, this is what you really want. SO LET HER LEAD!
- Talk about her. Notice things about her. NOT HER BODY! Compliment her outfit. Or her shoes. Ask if she has recently gotten a hair cut. Whatever you notice tell her it looks nice. You love her sense of style. Remember it needs to be about a choice she made. Not “you look nice” but “Those shoes look great on you”. Women know what you mean but showing restraint lets them know you are a well mannered inferior male.
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Examples of what to say.
“That is a gorgeous coat you have on tonight, where did you get it?”
- by referencing fashion you make her feel good about her appearance without being creepy. It is also a good idea to study fashion if you run into women who are particular about clothing.
- by talking about her coat and not her body, she will see you as a non-sexual being. Similar to a gay friend or girlfriend. This is perfect for you as a beta male. Remember that the friend zone is where beta males thrive most.
“I heard you work in finance, that must be very challenging. I have a difficult time with numbers, *grins* but I find the field fascinating. I would love to hear more about what you do.”
- A little self-deprecation goes a long way. If you overdo it she may see you as mentally ill or needy. Like you want her to build you up or compliment you. She will feel socially obligated. If you frame it as a joke she will not and may laugh a little at your expense. Some little piece of humiliation to pine over later on.
- You have complimented her choice of profession and pointed out that you see her as intelligent. Most women need these compliments as our culture stills see women as incompetent.
“They have a great bar here. It would be my pleasure to get you something while you settle in, I was heading that way myself if you want something. Perhaps a glass of wine.”
- By saying that you will enjoy doing something for her, it will let her know you receive pleasure from serving others (women).
- By allowing her to believe you were going anyway will make her feel less obligated to you for your service. Remember she is generally dealing with men you always want something in return.
“Ok. I understand. Let me know if I need anything at all while you are here. I know the bartender (know the bartender) so please do not hesitate to ask.” – Then excuse yourself.
- Do not hold her hostage. Most men are possessive around women. They want to mark their territory. But as a beta male, you need to focus on her happiness. Her joy is yours.
- Leave the offer open to her discretion. Remember. She may know you are inferior. She may even know you are beta. But she has been raised to suppress those instincts.
You deserve to be happy. And your happiness comes through serving Goddesses. So remember.
Take your time. Get out and meet women. Try different approaches. And keep training here at obeywomen.pink.
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every beat male should read this and act accordingly. Extremely useful and important. Thank you for explaining so clearly The Look.
Males like me often offend women in the situation you described and you have saved me from being hopeless to stop. Thank you so much.
Wonderful article, looking forward to implementing Your teachings. Thank You for this, and hopefully more, blog posts to learn from
To be honest–this article is like a starter primer but it really is a great point of reference on where to begin! I have swerved two different ladies in the past and I truly wish I had read this before I met them…just from these few paragraphs I have identified A LOT of areas that I need to improve on as well as areas where I have made blunders. as well. BUT..I am fortunate enough to get a third chance as I have been corresponding with a lady I met on CS for some months now and on Memorial Day Saturday we are meeting for breakfast, and I can 100% assure you that THIS article is going to be a very valuable asset for me when we meet that morning!!! Just these few paragraphs have given me an excellent point of reference for a MUCH MUCH better understanding of how I will be viewed!!! The old saying about first impressions is SO true, and with this article I now feel I have a fighting chance on how to make the first impression a very positive experience!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH AUTHOR!!! I will let you know how it went!!!
just remember to listen and only speak when you are told to.
Thank you for this wonderful article, I always freeze when I get the look and do not say anything, so from now on I will just ask if I can help her. It’s about time I fully admit I am a beta male and learn how to act around women, thank you for helping me become a better beta male.
I love this web site so much!! I’m a very happily married beta male who worships my wife. My intentions to serve her are sincere and I find the material here to be very helpful in letting me know what to do and more importantly what not to do. Our relationship has gotten so much better since I found this site! Thank you for the help!
wonderful. we are here to improve her happiness in your service.
A truly great article! As a sissy male in service to a Mistress I find this article extremely helpful.
we are so glad for you both.
So true! I once went to a fish and chips shop for lunch with a female cousin from the States (I’m in Canada).
She told me the waitress liked me. And I said, “Oh, I didn’t notice.”
And she said, “Yeah, I noticed.”
Thank you so much for your helpful information. I have always felt the need to serve women. I love powerful, superior women, and I it is a joy to express myself about this. Your website has proven to be very helpful for me learning and accepting my true nature and desire to serve women. I do want women to have more leadership roles, in politics, business, and society. I do believe the world will be a better place as women gain more power. Thank you for the training, I love and support what you are doing.
I have never faced the look since I have realized myself as a beta male. I am nervous about how I will handle it. Thank you for preparing me for that moment. I hope that I don’t blow it, and spend hours or even days regretting something stupid that I said.
You are spot on with this information. So many things on here i have done in the past all wrong. Thank you for this its so true . Women are meant to rule and males or at least this male is meant to serve. But i do not see myself as wimpy or weak . I am strong and can take care of myself and others , have led many people but WOMEN should just get together and bond with each other and make it a reality to take over all positions of power and strip males of theirs . We should be behind Women . We should be the office boys, the assistants, the butlers, the workers, office boys but it should be done natural so we don’t even know its happening.and we become comfortable with our inferior status. We stand an hold the packages at the store silently no talking to other males we must keep our attention on HER and see other males doing the same so we know this is how we should behave. Anyway i just discovered this site and you should go further out make it know in other places .
Thank You for taking the time to read my comments.
Usefulmale. I agree very much. Each and every male must be completely and thoroughly stripped of all power to be placed firmly under the total control of Women. This process must of course be carried out with the utmost and absolute Submission and Subservience. There is simply no room for resistance or reluctance what so ever. Everything must be laid out neatly and organized for Women to change however They see fit. males don’t have a say in this, they get to sit back and enjoy it while it happens. As Beautiful and wonderfully perfect it sounds, there is only one way to achieve such a Wonder. Through slow, gentle, subtle, careful, and thorough influencing, Women can Feminize the mind of a male to unquestioningly obey and support Female Supremacy. In doing this process, the male will not detect the Women’s gentle influence and he will simply embrace it naturally, just like he is supposed to. As enough time goes on, the males’ mind will be Feminized and better suited to meet the needs of Women. As a result, the males masculinity will no longer be toxic, but will be pure and healthy under the use of Women. And finally, males will have been put in their place by Women. This is already happening and will continue to happen while males happily accept it. And the most satisfying part is that males can’t resist it, because to them there is nothing to resist, only acceptance. Like I said, no room for resistance, simple. This process is natural, irresistible, IRREVERSIBLE, and unstoppable. I know because my Girlfriend took me through the same process. It is the most Beautiful and Wonderful experience ever. I still can’t thank Her enough. She transformed me from a toxic, disobedient, masculine male into a Subservient Feminine Female Supremacist. Now, I obey Her and all Women unquestioningly because they are superior and dominant, and always know what’s best for males.
Is it wrong to give a woman your money so she can go spend it with another man. My goddess wants me to start doing this
Wow, what an informative and helpful article for us males to learn from. Most of the time when a Woman stares me down, i freeze up and pretend to ignore Her. It’s not what i want to do of course but i just get so nervous about saying the wrong thing or getting rejected. Your article has helped me realize that this is BEST time to offer to help or serve Her in some way. It doesn’t even matter if i sound dumb or nervous. It doesn’t matter if She just wants to exercise Her power over me and put me down. What’s important is that i signal that i am willing to yield to Her and show Her the respect She deserves. Your statement,
“Without being to forward, she needs to know that you are not here to resist her. That you want to serve and are willing to give her all the power in the interaction.”
is so insightful and makes total sense.
Thank you for another great article.
Informative and compelling
Being born in the early 1950’s, i was raised to respect women and be courteous to all women. as a beta I was sucked in by the system that did not. I found it hard to fit in and girlfriends that I had I respected and if they wanted to stay a virgin i respected their decision, and stayed a virgin till I was in my mid 20’s. This site reminds me why I was taught the way I was. I am seeking to be a better beta and reconcile my errors with my penis abuse over the years. I hope thru the FSU and obeywoman website I can get there.